me and my boyfriend sleep in separate rooms because he snores and it keeps me awake all night.
when we first met (in college) we used to share one of those dinky single beds. we'd cram ourselves
on there and by morning, i'd find myself not-so-delicately wedged between the bed and the wall, falling into the crack. we were all about the togetherness back then and his snoring was minimal and didn't bother me.
ever since he's gained some weight his snoring has become earth-moving. even if i wear earplugs i can
still feel his snoring vibrations.
i really want to be able to sleep in the same bed but i'm at the point where i really really love having an entire bed to myself. i sprawl out like a crime scene chalk outline. i can fart under the covers all i want.
but how abnormal is it to sleep in separate beds? does that mean we don't love each other enough?
there is a taboo associated with not sharing a bed with the one you love and it's not even lucy and ricky cute.
i should be able to suck it up and deal with the snoring because i love him, no? or is that outdated thinking?
i'm too selfish? i think he needs a sinus operation.